Celebrating wins: the key to overcoming self-doubt

Understanding and overcoming self-doubt

Self-doubt doesn’t originate from within you; it stems from past conversations and interactions. No one is born with limiting beliefs. Repeated remarks from others plant negative seeds in your mind, and over time, you begin to believe these lies.

Self-doubt serves as a barrier between you and your potential. Identifying its external origins helps you take the first step toward overcoming it. Understanding that these doubts are not innate but imposed by external factors empowers you to reclaim your confidence and reshape your self-perception.

Breaking free from limiting beliefs

Ed Mylett, a prominent advocate of self-improvement, emphasizes the importance of keeping promises to yourself. This builds trust in your abilities. When you do the things you say you are going to do, it begins to lay the foundation for immense confidence. Whether you want to wake up at a certain time, commit to a new running training plan, or be more engaging with those around you, consistently honoring your commitments transforms your mindset, preparing you to take on more and achieve more due to increased self-assurance.

Start by setting and consistently achieving small, tangible goals. Each success, no matter how minor, contributes to building confidence. These accumulated successes act as building blocks, dismantling the negative beliefs that hold you back.

Reward yourself for keeping these promises. Celebrating small wins not only boosts confidence but also reduces the impact of limiting beliefs on your life. Self-recognition and celebration are crucial in reinforcing positive behaviors and fostering a growth mindset. By making a habit of acknowledging your achievements, you create a positive feedback loop that encourages continued success and resilience.

The problem with comparison

One significant root cause of self-doubt is comparing yourself to others. What has comparing yourself to others in life and business ever given you? More often than not, it leads to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Comparison distracts from your journey and progress, leading to a distorted view of your abilities and achievements.

Focus on your path and achievements. Embrace your unique journey and measure progress based on your goals while running your own race. This shift in mindset allows you to celebrate your growth rather than feeling diminished by others’ successes. Remember, everyone's journey is different, and success is not a zero-sum game. We are all on our own trajectories.

Take action

Take the first step toward overcoming self-doubt. Schedule a complimentary coaching discovery call now and start your journey towards a more confident and fulfilled life. Hit the link below to schedule your call.

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And don’t miss out on my upcoming 3-day workshop at Husker Harvest Days in Grand Island, Nebraska, September 10-12! The theme of the workshops will be resiliency, but we’ll also dive into:

Goal-setting: Learn how to set and achieve SMART goals.

Changing perspectives: Discover techniques to shift your mindset for better outcomes.

The power in visualization: Understand and harness the power of visualization to achieve the things you were meant to achieve.

Join me for this transformative event and equip yourself with the tools to build a resilient and successful life.

I wear many hats while in pursuit of my passions, including serving as a Christian husband, father, Kansas rancher, men’s resiliency coach, Army National Guard officer, consultant, and endurance athlete. I want to hear from you! You can connect with me on Instagram @coachjohnsachse or shoot me an email at [email protected] .